Squaring up to Your Shynes...
If you suffer with shyness...
It's properly CHILLY and grey today - have my lightbox on as I write - if you suffer from SAD (seasonal affective disorder) I recommend you use one too.
Simon Cowell knew exactly what he was doing with Jedward and Lucy last night - just as he did a week before with Lloyd and Rachel. It's a travesty losing real talent the last couple weeks but that doesn't concern a man who wants to squeeze the most possible financial/commercial success out of The X Factor. The twins get the show too much publicity!
York is a wonderful a city - just as I was told. After a 2:30 AM finish to our friend’s birthday celebrations on Friday night we took a long walk on Saturday inside the walled city and along the wall itself - all beautifully maintained. Having just read Shakespeare's Richard III (don't ask!) it was fantastic to see all the historical references to the houses of Lancaster and York.
TODAY’S THOUGHT: forget 'girls talk' what about men and talking? I have a feature in today's Express newspaper about getting men to communicate and one thing's for sure you can’t pester a man into opening up about something that’s troubling him. Although many would hate the fact I've highlighted this difference between men and women it's absolutely true for many men. We are simply NOT the same - and many men won't open the way your girlfriends will. As with all the differences between men and women I see 'viva la difference'!
Was invited to see the new Vivienne Westwood collection at Selfridge's this evening by a friend but sadly work meetings are taking me through early evening - not that I could afford even a handier by Viv.
Love as always, Pam X p.s. just heard that my slot tomorrow on Dublin Newstalk radio 106-108 FM is going to be at 10 AM rather than 11 AM just for this week - catch it on the Net if you can - you could even send in a problem!
I’m excited that my new book ‘THE LAWS OF SISTERHOOD - The girlfriends’ guide to successful dating and finding the one’ is available to preorder on Amazon.
I hope you find it a unique guide that emphasises how single friends can help each other make the most of the dating scene. As well as containing a vast array of tips and techniques to help you to dating success - everything from the first date, online dating, the signals he gives out through different behaviours, and how to improve your own signals are included.
“Pam’s dating book is inspired and will make you a much more attractive and confident date” Jo Hemmings, Behavioural psychologist and author
My new book The Emotional Eater's Diet is published in the UK on May 15 - I’m very excited as I hope emotional eaters - women or men will find it helpful. Each year 2/3s of people start a diet and 20% start a new diet each month. Yet 95% of diets aren’t successful.
I firmly believe that emotional eating to soothe difficult feelings is the culprit behind most of this failure. My book has a huge range of practical tips/strategies to help understand your emotions and manage your appetite. There are mini-quizes and real case studies.
It’s available to preorder on Amazon. Please remember that food can fuel your energy needs but not your emotional needs. Take care!
I'm delighted that my latest book Sex Academy was endorsed by my fellow self-help author Siski Green who said: "Sex Academy really is THE Bible of sex books. The lessons and lectures cover the A-Z of everything you want to know - from Anal sex to getting Zero sex." I hope you enjoy it!
I was so excited and HAPPY to write this book on happiness covering my 10 unique Happiness Principles. I hope it helps increase your well-being, contentment, and happiness. I've packed it with dozens and dozens of easy-to-use strategies, plus life-changing insights. Based on about five years of collecting case studies and research I hope you'll find it helpful.
My latest sex guide's out - I've gone through thousands of questions people ask me about sex - from why they don't feel desire to how to handle a partner's kinky fetish. Here are the answers plus loads of tricks and techniques. Enjoy!
Discover the relationship between your dreams and your sex- and love-life! Go on a journey of self-discovery in this unique dream book. Case studies, a dream directory, and ‘dreamersises’ help you interpret your dreams.
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No. 1 selling book offering you tons of fantastic sex tips PLUS a new and revolutionary ways of looking at sexual pleasure and ‘problems‘ and how they fit into a person's whole life and relationships.
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