Squaring up to Your Shynes...
If you suffer with shyness...
Sorry - still have the glitch on my site putting in some weird things! :-(
Yay, the sunshine is back! Hope you had a wonderful weekend. Saturday lunch at my good pal’s in Kent practically turned into Saturday supper also - she's a fab cook and made the best fish pie I think I've ever had. I know you're probably thinking fish pie is pretty basic but she had gorgeous jumbo prawns in it as well as various fish and lots of little tiny pieces of fresh vegetables and herbs. I've never made a fish pie that tasted like that!
Wow, surprised to see the rather hot pictures of Samantha Cameron that have surfaced in the press today! She always looks so demure and sophisticated - of course a very pretty woman but not one you'd think would pose for some seductive looking shots. But haven't most of us women wondered about that? I don't know what got into me once when I posed for some rather racy ones for the News of the World when I had a column in that paper. We actually changed them quite quickly into something a little bit less racy!
But then again life is short so why not have fun like that - it's not like I was naked or anything. However Carla Sarkozy's very pert bottom was rather naked in the shots that have surfaced of her. What's going on with celebrity women and shots from their youth popping up??
Back to the homefront - just had news that one of my three older brothers will be coming through in May for a visit which will be lovely. Sometimes we feel so disconnected from family as we’re all far flung.
TODAY’S THOUGHT: are you feeling rather far flung from family members? Sometimes it's hard to even start e-mailing when you've left it a long time. I know, I've had that feeling where I think "do I, don't I?" send them an e-mail as it's been so long? I always find it’s better to do so. Because 99% of people you know will be happy to hear from you even if you've left it a bit long.
Later today I'm doing an interview on BBC radio Newcastle about happiness. I've never spoken to Simon Logan before but I hear he’s a fun and lively presenter it'll be some time between 140 and 215 pm.
I'm very sad as we've got a 'going away' dinner tonight for one of my children who’s going on ‘sabbatical’ to the far east for three months. They've got leave from their job and are going on a great photographic adventure. Of course I’m over the moon and thrilled for them but at the same time we'll miss them so much. But of course I don't burden my child with that!! Never burden your child with your own feelings of loss when they go out the door on some big adventure.
Watch out for the new "your e-mail of the week" that I'll post later - so you still got time if you want to e-mail a dilemma, a thought or a point of view.
Enjoy your Monday, Pam X
I’m excited that my new book ‘THE LAWS OF SISTERHOOD - The girlfriends’ guide to successful dating and finding the one’ is available to preorder on Amazon.
I hope you find it a unique guide that emphasises how single friends can help each other make the most of the dating scene. As well as containing a vast array of tips and techniques to help you to dating success - everything from the first date, online dating, the signals he gives out through different behaviours, and how to improve your own signals are included.
“Pam’s dating book is inspired and will make you a much more attractive and confident date” Jo Hemmings, Behavioural psychologist and author
My new book The Emotional Eater's Diet is published in the UK on May 15 - I’m very excited as I hope emotional eaters - women or men will find it helpful. Each year 2/3s of people start a diet and 20% start a new diet each month. Yet 95% of diets aren’t successful.
I firmly believe that emotional eating to soothe difficult feelings is the culprit behind most of this failure. My book has a huge range of practical tips/strategies to help understand your emotions and manage your appetite. There are mini-quizes and real case studies.
It’s available to preorder on Amazon. Please remember that food can fuel your energy needs but not your emotional needs. Take care!
I'm delighted that my latest book Sex Academy was endorsed by my fellow self-help author Siski Green who said: "Sex Academy really is THE Bible of sex books. The lessons and lectures cover the A-Z of everything you want to know - from Anal sex to getting Zero sex." I hope you enjoy it!
I was so excited and HAPPY to write this book on happiness covering my 10 unique Happiness Principles. I hope it helps increase your well-being, contentment, and happiness. I've packed it with dozens and dozens of easy-to-use strategies, plus life-changing insights. Based on about five years of collecting case studies and research I hope you'll find it helpful.
My latest sex guide's out - I've gone through thousands of questions people ask me about sex - from why they don't feel desire to how to handle a partner's kinky fetish. Here are the answers plus loads of tricks and techniques. Enjoy!
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