Squaring up to Your Shynes...
If you suffer with shyness...
Hola! I hope you've been well and flourishing! At the risk of making anyone who doesn't like walks in the drizzle feel envious (as I gather it's been pretty drizzly here over the last eight or nine days. But actually I quite like walks on a grey, misty day as they can cheer you up by getting your endorphins pumping around your system…yeah, ok, you do have to walk pretty darn fast to get those pumping around but at least I tried!) I had an amazing trip back to Cuba with one of my children. Whether because of work or travel all the family was far flung over the last couple weeks. I got to pitch up on a beautiful beach perfect for snorkeling. Mind you, I had to take some work with me so it wasn't all snorkelling bliss!
The most amazing highlight of the trip was when a pair of dolphins swam up to about 20 m from shore to frolic in front of the gathering crowd. The ‘crowd’ consisting of myself, my child and about three other each bunnies. I have been to a lot of beaches in a lot of far flung places and I've never seen dolphins swim that close and literally put on a show. It was captivating. It was one of those miracles of nature where we happened to be in the right place, at the right time, and the dolphins were feeling playful. I'm going to read up on dolphin behaviour - honestly I want to find out if this is very common.
As I've come back to a trillion e-mails (well that might be an exaggeration) this will be brief. But I wanted to flag up for you if you're heading out on a date that I had a piece on great date tips in the Express newspaper on Monday and it's on their website if you're heading out this weekend for a date then check it out.
Now how about if you have been away over the Easter break and you met someone in another country that really took your fancy? My blog on iVillage.co.uk today is about a woman who left her heart in Barcelona. You can check out on their site if you're involved in a transcontinental romance!
TODAY’S THOUGHT: I missed my ‘better half’ over the nine days I was away and so I did something that I've done before when we've been apart - and maybe you want to try if you're apart from a loved one. In little envelopes I put some of his favourite chocolates and little love messages (okay, so some of you are getting sick bags right now - but for those of you who are romantic at heart, read on) and hid them in various places I knew that he would come across. It's only a little gesture but I think when you're apart it's so nice to randomly find such things.
Looking forward to checking out your e-mails that you've been sending me and I will get around to putting up a new “your e-mail of the week" as soon as I can, lots of love, Pam X
I’m excited that my new book ‘THE LAWS OF SISTERHOOD - The girlfriends’ guide to successful dating and finding the one’ is available to preorder on Amazon.
I hope you find it a unique guide that emphasises how single friends can help each other make the most of the dating scene. As well as containing a vast array of tips and techniques to help you to dating success - everything from the first date, online dating, the signals he gives out through different behaviours, and how to improve your own signals are included.
“Pam’s dating book is inspired and will make you a much more attractive and confident date” Jo Hemmings, Behavioural psychologist and author
My new book The Emotional Eater's Diet is published in the UK on May 15 - I’m very excited as I hope emotional eaters - women or men will find it helpful. Each year 2/3s of people start a diet and 20% start a new diet each month. Yet 95% of diets aren’t successful.
I firmly believe that emotional eating to soothe difficult feelings is the culprit behind most of this failure. My book has a huge range of practical tips/strategies to help understand your emotions and manage your appetite. There are mini-quizes and real case studies.
It’s available to preorder on Amazon. Please remember that food can fuel your energy needs but not your emotional needs. Take care!
I'm delighted that my latest book Sex Academy was endorsed by my fellow self-help author Siski Green who said: "Sex Academy really is THE Bible of sex books. The lessons and lectures cover the A-Z of everything you want to know - from Anal sex to getting Zero sex." I hope you enjoy it!
I was so excited and HAPPY to write this book on happiness covering my 10 unique Happiness Principles. I hope it helps increase your well-being, contentment, and happiness. I've packed it with dozens and dozens of easy-to-use strategies, plus life-changing insights. Based on about five years of collecting case studies and research I hope you'll find it helpful.
My latest sex guide's out - I've gone through thousands of questions people ask me about sex - from why they don't feel desire to how to handle a partner's kinky fetish. Here are the answers plus loads of tricks and techniques. Enjoy!
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