Dr Pam : BLog Archive

Did a little chat on BBC radio Devon about what makes a good on-screen partnership with the new One Show starting on BBC1 tonight. I'm sure Jason Manford and Alex Jones have been working hard on their on-screen chemistry!

Oh dear, I hope Abbey Clancy’s going to dump Peter Crouch once and for all - you can't get more evidence that the man's a love cheat through and through... he was pictured over the weekend in "overly friendly" clinches with a bevy of beauties.

Evidently ex-GMTV presenter Emma Crosby might work across the pond in America despite being in a serious relationship. Long distance relationships can work but they need to be executed with military precision. My top tip - keep things light and fun on the phone, send each other tiny little surprises, and don't put too much pressure on each other when you get together for a weekend that it's going to be absolute bliss.

That kind of pressure is hard to live up to. With this blasted recession I hear increasingly of people having to go further afield to find work or develop their career. If that's you, be wise about it and it will work!

Heaven forbid if my husband had come to bed with a teddy… I'd never have married him!

In the papers today there's a report about how many adults go to bed with a cuddly toy. I'm sorry but that might be something you do as a singleton but if you're starting to date - and plan to have someone share your bed - a cuddly toy is the last thing they'll want to find in your bed.

As an agony aunt I've had plenty of letters along these lines - where new partners are flummoxed by the things the people they've just started dating, keep in their bedroom including cuddly toys.

But also I've had plenty of letters about real pets (cats, dogs, parrots!) presenting formidable problems when you first land yourself in the bedroom with your new lover.

Think about putting these things away when you're seducing a new person with your charms! Stick that teddy in the attic so they don't think you're stuck in childhood. When you've captured their heart - and sure they won't run a mile - you can always them to teddy.

So, some research out today says that men and women actually aren't that different - don't believe it for a minute! But, the picture is confusing with some brain studies showing gender differences and others, like this one, showing far more similarities.

TODAY’S THOUGHT: you know what I say? Viva le difference! I love the fact that I'm different from my hubby - and he's different from me. I relish my femininity and his masculinity. It's wonderful that there are differences to keep things interesting.

Go on, enjoy your differences, rather than fighting over them!

Love, Pam X

Books

Sex Academy - Essential Lessons in Seduction & Spectacular Sex

I'm very excited that my new book's available for pre-order on Amazon and should be in shops the end of April. Fellow author Siski Green says about Sex Academy - it really is THE Bible of sex books. The lessons and lectures cover the A-Z of everything you want to know - from Anal sex to getting Zero sex. Hope you enjoy it!

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How to be a Happy Human - Ten Essential Principles to Change Your Life!

I was so excited and HAPPY to write this book on happiness covering my 10 unique Happiness Principles. I hope it helps increase your well-being, contentment, and happiness. I've packed it with dozens and dozens of easy-to-use strategies, plus life-changing insights. Based on about five years of collecting case studies and research I hope you'll find it helpful.

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Steamy Sex - The Sex Doctor's Answers For Keeping It Hot

My latest sex guide's out - I've gone through thousands of questions people ask me about sex - from why they don't feel desire to how to handle a partner's kinky fetish. Here are the answers plus loads of tricks and techniques. Enjoy!

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Sex Dreams & Symbols

Discover the relationship between your dreams and your sex- and love-life! Go on a journey of self-discovery in this unique dream book. Case studies, a dream directory, and ‘dreamersises’ help you interpret your dreams.

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Sizzling Sex - The Sex Doctor's 250 Hottest Tips, Tricks, and Techniques

My research found if a couple's been together more than one year it's unlikely you've tried any new sex tip, trick or technique for at least four months! Rescue's at hand with my 250 hottest sex tips for every aspect of your sex life.

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The Dating Survival Guide - Ten Top Tactics For Total Success

Dating. It's a jungle out there. This is the ultimate guide to negotiating your way around the minefield of the dating game. Practical advice, useful tips and insights cover all dating issues to revolutionise your love life!

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The Break-up Survival Kit - Emotional Rescue For The Newly Single!

Relationship breakdown's rife and the emotional fall-out from a break-up is incalculable. Here's emotional rescue for the heartbroken packed with tips, advice, plus practical assistance allowing the broken-hearted to rebuild their lives.

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Fabulous Foreplay - The Sex Doctor's Guide To Teasing & Pleasing Your Lover

No couple or single can be without this unique, best-selling book containing a vast range of techniques, tricks and tips to turn your lover on. From attracting someone new to recharging your old relationship, Fabulous, explores each of the sexual senses in turn!

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Sensational Sex: The Revolutionary Guide To Sexual Pleasure & Fulfilment

No. 1 selling book offering you tons of fantastic sex tips PLUS a new and revolutionary ways of looking at sexual pleasure and ‘problems‘ and how they fit into a person's whole life and relationships.

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Sinful Sex: The Uninhibited Guide to Erotic Pleasure

No. 1 selling sex book covering everything from how your body works to infinite sex tips. The Daily Star said: 'Sinful Sex has something for everyone'

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Your Child's Dreams

A unique parenting book giving you creative techniques to understand your child better through their dreams and nightmares. These reveal so much about a child that most parents miss out on. Strengthen your parent-child relationship, their confidence and well-being!

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