Dr Pam : BLog Archive

Have just posted a new "your e-mail of the week" from Stacey. It's no laughing matter in bed with her boyfriend. Click on the "Gold Star" on my homepage to read her question and my answer.

Surprise, surprise another man who can’t be satisfied with the woman in his life - Desperate Housewives star Eva Longoria has filed for divorce after finding evidence of her husband's affairs. What a fool he is!

On my weekly iVillage.co uk blog I've answered a man's question about his wife's menopause - if you're a man worried about this - and for him it's impacted on their sex life - do take a look.

Had a lovely dinner out with a group of fabulous women - Dr Dawn Harper (of Embarrassing Bodies), Julie Peasgood, Paula Hall of Relate and Sarah, Bridget and Anna - we've been working together on a project. Sometimes it's lovely to just be all girls together!

Over to The Apprentice and Sandeesh proved too nice for the task. There's a vast world of difference between those who bleat on about how great they are - but are far from true leaders - like Stuart (I'm sorry but he’s a bit of a fool). And those who quietly get on with something like Sandeesh – but who also don't have the stuff of business acumen and leadership.

If I was Lord Sugar I'd get a new production team next year - ones who can choose the masterful to the Machiavellian when it comes to business. Now that would be an interesting programme to watch - because who’d end up winning the top job - truly gifted young business people or some way and manipulative ones?

Nigel Havers has always been one of those older hot guys - here's hoping he doesn't let himself down in the celebrity jungle.

I once interviewed him on LBC when he was doing that ITV series about older guys (don't recall its name but it was about eight years ago) and he was utterly charming. I'd been told to go gently with him as his wife at the time was struggling with cancer - and she did pass away and he has since remarried.

As if I would do anything else but go gently with someone like Nigel - let's face it when you're in the presence of a Class A Charmer, as an interviewer sometimes you can be putty in their hands.

TODAY’S THOUGHT: I've interviewed, worked with and met a fair few celebrities and sometimes you do feel let down by the reality. He wasn't one of them. But he's human and we all have our less-good sides, don't we?

It's all about recognising them and trying to understand, manage and improve them. Crikey, I know I try!

It's almost the weekend! Have fun, Pam x

Books

Sex Academy - Essential Lessons in Seduction & Spectacular Sex

I'm very excited that my new book's available for pre-order on Amazon and should be in shops the end of April. Fellow author Siski Green says about Sex Academy - it really is THE Bible of sex books. The lessons and lectures cover the A-Z of everything you want to know - from Anal sex to getting Zero sex. Hope you enjoy it!

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How to be a Happy Human - Ten Essential Principles to Change Your Life!

I was so excited and HAPPY to write this book on happiness covering my 10 unique Happiness Principles. I hope it helps increase your well-being, contentment, and happiness. I've packed it with dozens and dozens of easy-to-use strategies, plus life-changing insights. Based on about five years of collecting case studies and research I hope you'll find it helpful.

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Steamy Sex - The Sex Doctor's Answers For Keeping It Hot

My latest sex guide's out - I've gone through thousands of questions people ask me about sex - from why they don't feel desire to how to handle a partner's kinky fetish. Here are the answers plus loads of tricks and techniques. Enjoy!

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Sex Dreams & Symbols

Discover the relationship between your dreams and your sex- and love-life! Go on a journey of self-discovery in this unique dream book. Case studies, a dream directory, and ‘dreamersises’ help you interpret your dreams.

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Sizzling Sex - The Sex Doctor's 250 Hottest Tips, Tricks, and Techniques

My research found if a couple's been together more than one year it's unlikely you've tried any new sex tip, trick or technique for at least four months! Rescue's at hand with my 250 hottest sex tips for every aspect of your sex life.

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The Dating Survival Guide - Ten Top Tactics For Total Success

Dating. It's a jungle out there. This is the ultimate guide to negotiating your way around the minefield of the dating game. Practical advice, useful tips and insights cover all dating issues to revolutionise your love life!

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The Break-up Survival Kit - Emotional Rescue For The Newly Single!

Relationship breakdown's rife and the emotional fall-out from a break-up is incalculable. Here's emotional rescue for the heartbroken packed with tips, advice, plus practical assistance allowing the broken-hearted to rebuild their lives.

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Fabulous Foreplay - The Sex Doctor's Guide To Teasing & Pleasing Your Lover

No couple or single can be without this unique, best-selling book containing a vast range of techniques, tricks and tips to turn your lover on. From attracting someone new to recharging your old relationship, Fabulous, explores each of the sexual senses in turn!

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Sensational Sex: The Revolutionary Guide To Sexual Pleasure & Fulfilment

No. 1 selling book offering you tons of fantastic sex tips PLUS a new and revolutionary ways of looking at sexual pleasure and ‘problems‘ and how they fit into a person's whole life and relationships.

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Sinful Sex: The Uninhibited Guide to Erotic Pleasure

No. 1 selling sex book covering everything from how your body works to infinite sex tips. The Daily Star said: 'Sinful Sex has something for everyone'

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Your Child's Dreams

A unique parenting book giving you creative techniques to understand your child better through their dreams and nightmares. These reveal so much about a child that most parents miss out on. Strengthen your parent-child relationship, their confidence and well-being!

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