Squaring up to Your Shynes...
If you suffer with shyness...
Due to go by train to the heart of Kent to take Christmas lunch to my adopted English 'gran' - it will be horribly disappointing if my pals and I don't - and yet later this afternoon I don't want to get stuck on a train line in Kent! Despite the Kent countryside being beautiful! I was left with a dislike (not really a phobia) of being trapped in snow after being snowed in/trapped for five days in a little hotel in the Squaw Valley/Alpine Meadows area of north Lake Tahoe, California in late-March 1982 after a massive avalanche that killed eight or nine people. Let me assure you it's not fun when you know there are people dead around you.
On a lighter note was out catching up over pre-Chrissie drink with an old pal at the Century club last night - which was lovely but could barely hear each other - I hope I'm not the only one getting sick of very loud bar music!!
Very amusing report about men not having any idea what to give their partners for Christmas. E-mail your worst ever gifts from HABs - 'that husbands and boyfriends' - to my "your e-mail at the week" on my homepage and next week I'm going to post the worst.
I'll kick off the list with the time I was given a Hoover - was that a hint that I was a bad housekeeper?? Practically the least romantic gift ever.
Seeing that Brad and Angelina may go for a spiritual wedding in India I'm torn in two - part of me thinks 'good on them' - their lives must be so Hollywood-materialistic that some spirituality will be a good thing. The other part of me thinks this is such a cliche started by the Beatles.
THOUGHT FOR TODAY: if it makes things sweeter, more loving, more spiritual and caring, etc., between you two then do try new avenues to deepen your relationship.
Obviously in my work I meet many people that come across relationship roadblocks - crash into them or keep trying the same old thing to get past them. Think about you and your partner - and whether you need to do things in a new way. It's coming up to the worst couple weeks in the calendar for break-ups.
Keep warm and cosy! Here's hoping that I'll get back from Kent! Happy Friday, pam X
I’m excited that my new book ‘THE LAWS OF SISTERHOOD - The girlfriends’ guide to successful dating and finding the one’ is available to preorder on Amazon.
I hope you find it a unique guide that emphasises how single friends can help each other make the most of the dating scene. As well as containing a vast array of tips and techniques to help you to dating success - everything from the first date, online dating, the signals he gives out through different behaviours, and how to improve your own signals are included.
“Pam’s dating book is inspired and will make you a much more attractive and confident date” Jo Hemmings, Behavioural psychologist and author
My new book The Emotional Eater's Diet is published in the UK on May 15 - I’m very excited as I hope emotional eaters - women or men will find it helpful. Each year 2/3s of people start a diet and 20% start a new diet each month. Yet 95% of diets aren’t successful.
I firmly believe that emotional eating to soothe difficult feelings is the culprit behind most of this failure. My book has a huge range of practical tips/strategies to help understand your emotions and manage your appetite. There are mini-quizes and real case studies.
It’s available to preorder on Amazon. Please remember that food can fuel your energy needs but not your emotional needs. Take care!
I'm delighted that my latest book Sex Academy was endorsed by my fellow self-help author Siski Green who said: "Sex Academy really is THE Bible of sex books. The lessons and lectures cover the A-Z of everything you want to know - from Anal sex to getting Zero sex." I hope you enjoy it!
I was so excited and HAPPY to write this book on happiness covering my 10 unique Happiness Principles. I hope it helps increase your well-being, contentment, and happiness. I've packed it with dozens and dozens of easy-to-use strategies, plus life-changing insights. Based on about five years of collecting case studies and research I hope you'll find it helpful.
My latest sex guide's out - I've gone through thousands of questions people ask me about sex - from why they don't feel desire to how to handle a partner's kinky fetish. Here are the answers plus loads of tricks and techniques. Enjoy!
Discover the relationship between your dreams and your sex- and love-life! Go on a journey of self-discovery in this unique dream book. Case studies, a dream directory, and ‘dreamersises’ help you interpret your dreams.
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No. 1 selling book offering you tons of fantastic sex tips PLUS a new and revolutionary ways of looking at sexual pleasure and ‘problems‘ and how they fit into a person's whole life and relationships.
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