Squaring up to Your Shynes...
If you suffer with shyness...
If you're a fellow SAD sufferer (seasonal affective disorder) then I hope you're noticing the longer afternoons – yay - it makes a huge difference to me and I hope it does for you. My SAD disappears at this time of year - fingers crossed yours does too.
Congrats to the Beckham's - a fourth child on the way - who would’ve guessed as Victoria still looks far too slim. Now that it's out in the open and hopefully will see her smiling more!
No surprises they’re hoping for a girl after three sons - I'm sure what they're hoping for most is a healthy baby.
Sticking with babies if you're trying IVF to conceive as a good friend of mine is right now - definitely get some laughter and humour into your life. A report out today shows that laughter helps you improve your chances with IVF.
Funny enough I'm looking forward to the first night of Milton Jones nearly sold-out tour on Friday - get a ticket if you can - he's one of these highly intelligent stand-ups, quick witted and makes you think a bit.
Was v sorry to have to turn down flying to Dublin tomorrow to record the Craig Doyle show - have work commitments in the diary that can't be cancelled. Would've loved to have a day and night over there. It's coming to the end of his present series so maybe it'll work for his next series.
Speaking of telly, having been on Loose Women last week I noticed the headline about Denise Welsh pulling a "sickie" yesterday... well, if you believe the headline, not exactly a sickie. She's a feisty, beautiful, talented woman with a family that loves her and I hope she's looking after herself no matter what the papers say.
TODAY’S THOUGHT: isn't it the way of life that some of the talented, creative, sparky people we know have riskier sides to their nature? There's something about creativity and "quirkiness" that go hand-in-hand.
If you have someone in your midst - a family member or friend - that has an unusual side to their nature that might end up self-destructive, be there for them and keep a watchful eye.
It's true, with the best will in the world you may not stop bad things happening to good people but you can hope to do so.
So... being ill I stayed in last night instead of meeting an old pal but I got to hear Jessie J on Radio 1 doing her A-Z of music influences. She’s a one-woman phenomenon - made good background music as we sat and had a late dinner.
Also loved the new Miles Kane track that Zane Lowe played at the end of his show.
Check out Deerhunter - loving their tunes.
Watching Black Swan tonight - seeing as I took ballet lessons three times a week from age 3 to 13 I still have an interest - I think this film's about a couple of 'warring' ballerinas.
Enjoy your Tuesday, Pam X
I’m excited that my new book ‘THE LAWS OF SISTERHOOD - The girlfriends’ guide to successful dating and finding the one’ is available to preorder on Amazon.
I hope you find it a unique guide that emphasises how single friends can help each other make the most of the dating scene. As well as containing a vast array of tips and techniques to help you to dating success - everything from the first date, online dating, the signals he gives out through different behaviours, and how to improve your own signals are included.
“Pam’s dating book is inspired and will make you a much more attractive and confident date” Jo Hemmings, Behavioural psychologist and author
My new book The Emotional Eater's Diet is published in the UK on May 15 - I’m very excited as I hope emotional eaters - women or men will find it helpful. Each year 2/3s of people start a diet and 20% start a new diet each month. Yet 95% of diets aren’t successful.
I firmly believe that emotional eating to soothe difficult feelings is the culprit behind most of this failure. My book has a huge range of practical tips/strategies to help understand your emotions and manage your appetite. There are mini-quizes and real case studies.
It’s available to preorder on Amazon. Please remember that food can fuel your energy needs but not your emotional needs. Take care!
I'm delighted that my latest book Sex Academy was endorsed by my fellow self-help author Siski Green who said: "Sex Academy really is THE Bible of sex books. The lessons and lectures cover the A-Z of everything you want to know - from Anal sex to getting Zero sex." I hope you enjoy it!
I was so excited and HAPPY to write this book on happiness covering my 10 unique Happiness Principles. I hope it helps increase your well-being, contentment, and happiness. I've packed it with dozens and dozens of easy-to-use strategies, plus life-changing insights. Based on about five years of collecting case studies and research I hope you'll find it helpful.
My latest sex guide's out - I've gone through thousands of questions people ask me about sex - from why they don't feel desire to how to handle a partner's kinky fetish. Here are the answers plus loads of tricks and techniques. Enjoy!
Discover the relationship between your dreams and your sex- and love-life! Go on a journey of self-discovery in this unique dream book. Case studies, a dream directory, and ‘dreamersises’ help you interpret your dreams.
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