The Ultimate Christmas Relationship Survival Guide
I've written a quiz to test how likely you are to have an affair that's gone live on MSN UK - the Him Channel... you might be surprised by your results if you take it. It's so easy to let flirting slip into something more but once you're in the middle of a fling you can’t turn back the clock.
You know what my line is on cheating - if you wouldn't want your partner to cheat on you then don't cheat on them!
Have to agree with Sam Leith in yesterday's Evening Standard - when does watching a disaster on television become some sort of sad and tragic TV porn? It's like once you start watching you are gripped and keep re-watching even the same reports over and over again. It'd be better to dig deep and give to the Japanese Red Cross what ever you can. It's a desperate situation over there.
It's reported the Beckham's are finally having a girl – well, I know what it's like to have three older brothers - it's a mixture of blessings and curses!
One blessing was the constant stream of young men coming through the house when I was a teenager - no wonder my girlfriends always wanted to come to my house! And as for curses I certainly wasn't part of my brothers "gang" when it came to talking sports and was often accused of being "too girly".
TODAY’S THOUGHT: birth order is a fascinating subject and I've written articles on it before - so much of your personality is decided by birth order. The key thing is to recognise your part in the family "script" and not be chained to that role if it's not a particularly happy or functional one.
My friend the psychologist Linda Blair has just written a book on it - check it out if you're interested.
Happy Tuesday, Pam X
My new book The Emotional Eater's Diet is published in the UK on May 15 - I’m very excited as I hope emotional eaters - women or men will find it helpful. Each year 2/3s of people start a diet and 20% start a new diet each month. Yet 95% of diets aren’t successful.
I firmly believe that emotional eating to soothe difficult feelings is the culprit behind most of this failure. My book has a huge range of practical tips/strategies to help understand your emotions and manage your appetite. There are mini-quizes and real case studies.
It’s available to preorder on Amazon. Please remember that food can fuel your energy needs but not your emotional needs. Take care!
I'm delighted that my latest book Sex Academy was endorsed by my fellow self-help author Siski Green who said: "Sex Academy really is THE Bible of sex books. The lessons and lectures cover the A-Z of everything you want to know - from Anal sex to getting Zero sex." I hope you enjoy it!
I was so excited and HAPPY to write this book on happiness covering my 10 unique Happiness Principles. I hope it helps increase your well-being, contentment, and happiness. I've packed it with dozens and dozens of easy-to-use strategies, plus life-changing insights. Based on about five years of collecting case studies and research I hope you'll find it helpful.
My latest sex guide's out - I've gone through thousands of questions people ask me about sex - from why they don't feel desire to how to handle a partner's kinky fetish. Here are the answers plus loads of tricks and techniques. Enjoy!
Discover the relationship between your dreams and your sex- and love-life! Go on a journey of self-discovery in this unique dream book. Case studies, a dream directory, and ‘dreamersises’ help you interpret your dreams.
My research found if a couple's been together more than one year it's unlikely you've tried any new sex tip, trick or technique for at least four months! Rescue's at hand with my 250 hottest sex tips for every aspect of your sex life.
No couple or single can be without this unique, best-selling book containing a vast range of techniques, tricks and tips to turn your lover on. From attracting someone new to recharging your old relationship, Fabulous, explores each of the sexual senses in turn!
No. 1 selling book offering you tons of fantastic sex tips PLUS a new and revolutionary ways of looking at sexual pleasure and ‘problems‘ and how they fit into a person's whole life and relationships.
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A unique parenting book giving you creative techniques to understand your child better through their dreams and nightmares. These reveal so much about a child that most parents miss out on. Strengthen your parent-child relationship, their confidence and well-being!