Squaring up to Your Shynes...
If you suffer with shyness...
BIG NEWS - I'm retraining as a soul singer - I'm going to call myself Plan P! Will fill you in when I have time!
Interesting to see that Leona Lewis is undergoing a "rebranding"... suddenly she's become a party girl. One thing I know when I meet supposedly super-shy people as Leona first came across when she hit our screens in 2006 is they almost always have a ‘personality’ waiting to burst out.
It can take meeting the right partner to bring out the best in them, a change of heart or something else - suddenly they’re a new person. Always give shy people a second or third chance - you might discover a fun, fab personality lurking under that shy exterior.
Sticking with singers I hope reports that Britney is actually still fragile aren't true...her boys need a stable mother.
Over to EastEnders ... OMG that terrible baby-swap storyline's still going on. I'm a diehard fan – EE’s my guilty pleasure - but I'm about to give up on it.
If you're on a budget but want to do something for Mothering Sunday this weekend then check out "hot off the press" on my homepage - just posted an article on things to do for her that won't cost anything or much at all.
TODAY’S THOUGHT: Thinking of mums I'd do anything to have my late-mother back - I used to love spoiling her. If your mother's still with you then make every day precious. You might be super-busy but all you have to do is give her a quick call, ask how she's feeling, tell her a little bit about your day - and you'll make her day!
Tip for some chilled out music - Michael Kiwanuka - he's doing some touring with Adele - when I'm in an MOR state of mind he’s good... middle-of-the-road.
Enjoy your weekend, I know my children are cooking me dinner and they’re a heck of a lot more skilled in the kitchen than I am!
Looking forward to putting my feet up Saturday (plan a lazy weekend) after 3 nights out on the trot (I do live life in reverse - my weeknights are more like weekend nights and some weekends I do NOTHING which is lovely).
Was supposed to go to Glasgow on Sunday and see Robin Ince's and Prof Brian Cox’s show - Uncaged Monkeys - but stuff has got in the way - boo! But now I'm going to catch them when they come to London.
Try and see their show if you can - it's going to be flippin’ brilliant, Pam X p.s. April Fools - if I sang in public the police would be called!
I’m excited that my new book ‘THE LAWS OF SISTERHOOD - The girlfriends’ guide to successful dating and finding the one’ is available to preorder on Amazon.
I hope you find it a unique guide that emphasises how single friends can help each other make the most of the dating scene. As well as containing a vast array of tips and techniques to help you to dating success - everything from the first date, online dating, the signals he gives out through different behaviours, and how to improve your own signals are included.
“Pam’s dating book is inspired and will make you a much more attractive and confident date” Jo Hemmings, Behavioural psychologist and author
My new book The Emotional Eater's Diet is published in the UK on May 15 - I’m very excited as I hope emotional eaters - women or men will find it helpful. Each year 2/3s of people start a diet and 20% start a new diet each month. Yet 95% of diets aren’t successful.
I firmly believe that emotional eating to soothe difficult feelings is the culprit behind most of this failure. My book has a huge range of practical tips/strategies to help understand your emotions and manage your appetite. There are mini-quizes and real case studies.
It’s available to preorder on Amazon. Please remember that food can fuel your energy needs but not your emotional needs. Take care!
I'm delighted that my latest book Sex Academy was endorsed by my fellow self-help author Siski Green who said: "Sex Academy really is THE Bible of sex books. The lessons and lectures cover the A-Z of everything you want to know - from Anal sex to getting Zero sex." I hope you enjoy it!
I was so excited and HAPPY to write this book on happiness covering my 10 unique Happiness Principles. I hope it helps increase your well-being, contentment, and happiness. I've packed it with dozens and dozens of easy-to-use strategies, plus life-changing insights. Based on about five years of collecting case studies and research I hope you'll find it helpful.
My latest sex guide's out - I've gone through thousands of questions people ask me about sex - from why they don't feel desire to how to handle a partner's kinky fetish. Here are the answers plus loads of tricks and techniques. Enjoy!
Discover the relationship between your dreams and your sex- and love-life! Go on a journey of self-discovery in this unique dream book. Case studies, a dream directory, and ‘dreamersises’ help you interpret your dreams.
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