Later today my weekly iVillage.co.UK blog goes live - I've tackled a woman's problem with dumping guys before she gets emotionally involved - she knows she's doing it and fears she'll end up on her own - and she will if she doesn't change.
If you've got this problem - freaking out a bit before a relationship really gets started then check out my advice.
Over to the Express newspaper where I written some commentary about why Wimbledon's so popular with women who often don't watch any other sport? Because of the over-controlled, emotionally contained, alpha males that dominate the sport - check out my thoughts on the erotic elements to tennis in that article... it really is game, sex and match!
TODAY’S THOUGHT: one of the most common questions I’m asked by couples is how to keep things spicy – so why not try a hot, tennis-based fantasy? He's the finely & highly-toned tennis player - maybe brooding and silent like a Pete Sampras type - and you're the tennis groupie who wants to pick him up.
Or you're the tennis diva and he wants to be at your beck and call... I think you can take it from there...
Cheryl - don't do it - don't go back with Ashley! Loneliness can drive you back into the arms of an ex- - and that can be disastrous. If you're lonely after a breakup that's no reason to go back to an unhappy relationship. Things will look up if you just give it time.
Surprised to catch Wild Beasts's Bed of Nails on Radio 1 yesterday - recommended them months ago - check it out.
Take care, Pam X