It's time to recognise the "I'll be happy when..." syndrome!...
Hope you're having a lovely weekend! If you've got a ‘problem’ friend - someone you might describe as toxic - check out my article on MSN UK - the life and style channel. It's about how to handle those toxic friends (TFs) that seem to come into your life and take care over.
Thought it was brutal of the X Factor to literally ‘boot out’ of boot camp a quarter of contestants the first morning.
Brings out the cynic in me - clearly done to give viewers’ a cliffhanger. They would've known they'd selected far too many contestants for boot camp long before.
Horrible and unnecessary for all those contestants to go to the big boot camp party, spend the night at hotels, gone in the boot camp transport with all the excitement - and then crushed in such a blatant way.
TODAY’S TIP: back to toxic friends - if your friend makes you feel worse about yourself, takes advantage of you and neglects you, you must stand up for yourself.
Even if you or I wouldn't treat people like that - especially supposed friends - sadly there are people like that in this world who’ll take advantage.
If your kindness and caring isn't returned then pull them up the next time they take advantage. Keep it short and simple - say, e.g., you don't appreciate the fact they've let you down.
Ask them why they've done it rather than sweeping it under the carpet as too many people do.
It's a short one today - got to get back to working on the new book - almost done - woot!
Take care, Pam x
My new book The Emotional Eater's Diet is published in the UK on May 15 - I’m very excited as I hope emotional eaters - women or men will find it helpful. Each year 2/3s of people start a diet and 20% start a new diet each month. Yet 95% of diets aren’t successful.
I firmly believe that emotional eating to soothe difficult feelings is the culprit behind most of this failure. My book has a huge range of practical tips/strategies to help understand your emotions and manage your appetite. There are mini-quizes and real case studies.
It’s available to preorder on Amazon. Please remember that food can fuel your energy needs but not your emotional needs. Take care!
I'm delighted that my latest book Sex Academy was endorsed by my fellow self-help author Siski Green who said: "Sex Academy really is THE Bible of sex books. The lessons and lectures cover the A-Z of everything you want to know - from Anal sex to getting Zero sex." I hope you enjoy it!
I was so excited and HAPPY to write this book on happiness covering my 10 unique Happiness Principles. I hope it helps increase your well-being, contentment, and happiness. I've packed it with dozens and dozens of easy-to-use strategies, plus life-changing insights. Based on about five years of collecting case studies and research I hope you'll find it helpful.
My latest sex guide's out - I've gone through thousands of questions people ask me about sex - from why they don't feel desire to how to handle a partner's kinky fetish. Here are the answers plus loads of tricks and techniques. Enjoy!
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