Squaring up to Your Shynes...
If you suffer with shyness...
Squeezed between meetings today I jumped on a train to sunny Tunbridge Wells where I took my adopted ‘gran’ out for lunch at a fab place called the Hotel du Vin. She's a phenomenal woman I've known since I was about 19 and I adopted her (well not officially) as my gran. She's just turned 91 but has more life and soul in her than the average 30 year old - she was out at Ronnie Scott's in London only last week enjoying Georgie Fame. Now I can't claim to know his music, but know his name, as he was before my time - but I do know that you don't usualy get 91 years olds in a jazz club in Soho! We enjoyed some lovely wine and food with a couple of our other pals.
TODAY’S THOUGHT: This brings me to the fact my 'gran' has family, friends, and 'adopted' daughters and grand daughters like me, but I wonder if there's anyone near you who doesn't have family and could do with a little company? I fear there are people who need, literally, people - and a little time and company. Check out voluntary services in your area or simply look in on that neighbour who may need a bit of your time.
A word of warning - if you love James McAvoy (as I do) but don't want to sit through a ponderous film then don't see The Last Station when it comes out as I did last night at a screening. He and the rest of the cast were excellent but talk about a film with no dramatic tension until the last 10 minutes and you couldn't even say it was worth the wait because it was beautifully shot - because actually it wasn't that beautifully shot. If you're a diehard fan of his or Helen Mirren who played Countess Tolstoy then you might want to give it a shot but don't do it after a long day - pulling teeth out would be more fun in that case.
Lucky me, the plumber who's been working at my home today while I was in Tunbridge Wells still hasn't finished fixing our broken shower - three weeks now and they can’t seem to get the right parts!
Have a fab Friday night, it's Halloween tomorrow, time to get into my naughty devil gear, stay happy, Pam X
I’m excited that my new book ‘THE LAWS OF SISTERHOOD - The girlfriends’ guide to successful dating and finding the one’ is available to preorder on Amazon.
I hope you find it a unique guide that emphasises how single friends can help each other make the most of the dating scene. As well as containing a vast array of tips and techniques to help you to dating success - everything from the first date, online dating, the signals he gives out through different behaviours, and how to improve your own signals are included.
“Pam’s dating book is inspired and will make you a much more attractive and confident date” Jo Hemmings, Behavioural psychologist and author
My new book The Emotional Eater's Diet is published in the UK on May 15 - I’m very excited as I hope emotional eaters - women or men will find it helpful. Each year 2/3s of people start a diet and 20% start a new diet each month. Yet 95% of diets aren’t successful.
I firmly believe that emotional eating to soothe difficult feelings is the culprit behind most of this failure. My book has a huge range of practical tips/strategies to help understand your emotions and manage your appetite. There are mini-quizes and real case studies.
It’s available to preorder on Amazon. Please remember that food can fuel your energy needs but not your emotional needs. Take care!
I'm delighted that my latest book Sex Academy was endorsed by my fellow self-help author Siski Green who said: "Sex Academy really is THE Bible of sex books. The lessons and lectures cover the A-Z of everything you want to know - from Anal sex to getting Zero sex." I hope you enjoy it!
I was so excited and HAPPY to write this book on happiness covering my 10 unique Happiness Principles. I hope it helps increase your well-being, contentment, and happiness. I've packed it with dozens and dozens of easy-to-use strategies, plus life-changing insights. Based on about five years of collecting case studies and research I hope you'll find it helpful.
My latest sex guide's out - I've gone through thousands of questions people ask me about sex - from why they don't feel desire to how to handle a partner's kinky fetish. Here are the answers plus loads of tricks and techniques. Enjoy!
Discover the relationship between your dreams and your sex- and love-life! Go on a journey of self-discovery in this unique dream book. Case studies, a dream directory, and ‘dreamersises’ help you interpret your dreams.
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