Here are some tips for Natural Born Worriers and those who overthink
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If you faced a major relationship change or crisis over the year then there's probably a celebrity out there who's faced the same thing.
So in today's Sun newspaper I've written about celeb dilemmas from the last year - and how if you've experienced the same dilemma what tips you can use to move forward.
TODAY’S TIP: one of the celebrity relationships I've tackled is the age-gap relationship between Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher. Age gap relationships are even more fragile then those without a gap.
One of the first tips I recommend is to remember you might have differences because of your age gap - but also that every couple has differences!
Those without an age-gap might want to spend their free time in different ways, have different friends, listen to different music, etc.
So don't think that your differences - because of your ages - are insurmountable - they're not - every couple has things to sort out and compromise over.
Adopting this new attitude to your age-gap relationship can only be a positive.
I'm off now for nine days – flying off into the sunset - so instead of doing a "your e-mail of the week" I've just posted a new article on "hot off the press" on my home page about taking your life in new directions.
And you can't get rid of me that easily as I'm popping up on Channel 5 on Dec 30th for the roundup of big celeb stories of 2011 and have New Year's advice articles in places like MSN UK on the Her channel on their lifestyle section.
Have a very happy and healthful 2012 full of love and kindness!
Look after yourself, Pam x
My new book The Emotional Eater's Diet is published in the UK on May 15 - I’m very excited as I hope emotional eaters - women or men will find it helpful. Each year 2/3s of people start a diet and 20% start a new diet each month. Yet 95% of diets aren’t successful.
I firmly believe that emotional eating to soothe difficult feelings is the culprit behind most of this failure. My book has a huge range of practical tips/strategies to help understand your emotions and manage your appetite. There are mini-quizes and real case studies.
It’s available to preorder on Amazon. Please remember that food can fuel your energy needs but not your emotional needs. Take care!
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