Squaring up to Your Shynes...
If you suffer with shyness...
Lovely to hear that the soulful, and ever so talented Michael Kiwenuka has been named Radio 1's artist of 2012... need I remind anyone that I've been singing his praises for about 14 months on this site!?
Many other top talents on that list nearly made it including Spector, Skrillex and TEED - going to be an amazing year for music.
It's a new year and on the MSN UK ‘Her’ channel I've had three articles go live to help make the most of a new start.
So if you broke up with your partner recently there's one about handling a New Year breakup. ..yep, most breakups are painful things but they can hit even harder this time of year when you had such hopes for spending 2012 with that special person who's no longer part of your life.
Maybe I should ping over a copy to Russell Brand and Katy Perry? What a disaster...I'm sure there's a scientific principle that the more grandiose your wedding the quicker it falls apart...they had that crazy extravaganza in Indian. Same thing with Kim Kardashian's ridiculous expenditure.
For singles there's a creative guide to dating with some (I hope) fun suggestions.
I've also written about how to resuscitate your relationship if it's been battered over recent months.
TODAY’S TIP: what troubles me [for ‘troubles’ read ‘annoys’] about so many couples is they'll MOT their car but not their relationship.
Excuse me but what's more important - your car or your relationship?? Apart from the cheeky minority that might be shouting "my car!" it's obviously your relationship and yet we spend so little time making sure they're okay.
Use 2012 to start a new relationship habit - once a month [that's only 12 times this year] sit down for some uninterrupted time together and that means no mobiles, BlackBerries, etc. to distract you.
Put these dates in your diary and unless there's an earthquake don't cancel them!
Take a walk, enjoy a new café, etc., but sit and talk about the way you two have been relating over the past month. Have you slipped back into bad habits? Are you taking stress out on each other? That sort of thing.
But also look at what you've been doing right! Highlight some of your best moments from the last month - try and build more of these into your relationship.
Enjoy your weekend, Pam x
I’m excited that my new book ‘THE LAWS OF SISTERHOOD - The girlfriends’ guide to successful dating and finding the one’ is available to preorder on Amazon.
I hope you find it a unique guide that emphasises how single friends can help each other make the most of the dating scene. As well as containing a vast array of tips and techniques to help you to dating success - everything from the first date, online dating, the signals he gives out through different behaviours, and how to improve your own signals are included.
“Pam’s dating book is inspired and will make you a much more attractive and confident date” Jo Hemmings, Behavioural psychologist and author
My new book The Emotional Eater's Diet is published in the UK on May 15 - I’m very excited as I hope emotional eaters - women or men will find it helpful. Each year 2/3s of people start a diet and 20% start a new diet each month. Yet 95% of diets aren’t successful.
I firmly believe that emotional eating to soothe difficult feelings is the culprit behind most of this failure. My book has a huge range of practical tips/strategies to help understand your emotions and manage your appetite. There are mini-quizes and real case studies.
It’s available to preorder on Amazon. Please remember that food can fuel your energy needs but not your emotional needs. Take care!
I'm delighted that my latest book Sex Academy was endorsed by my fellow self-help author Siski Green who said: "Sex Academy really is THE Bible of sex books. The lessons and lectures cover the A-Z of everything you want to know - from Anal sex to getting Zero sex." I hope you enjoy it!
I was so excited and HAPPY to write this book on happiness covering my 10 unique Happiness Principles. I hope it helps increase your well-being, contentment, and happiness. I've packed it with dozens and dozens of easy-to-use strategies, plus life-changing insights. Based on about five years of collecting case studies and research I hope you'll find it helpful.
My latest sex guide's out - I've gone through thousands of questions people ask me about sex - from why they don't feel desire to how to handle a partner's kinky fetish. Here are the answers plus loads of tricks and techniques. Enjoy!
Discover the relationship between your dreams and your sex- and love-life! Go on a journey of self-discovery in this unique dream book. Case studies, a dream directory, and ‘dreamersises’ help you interpret your dreams.
My research found if a couple's been together more than one year it's unlikely you've tried any new sex tip, trick or technique for at least four months! Rescue's at hand with my 250 hottest sex tips for every aspect of your sex life.
No couple or single can be without this unique, best-selling book containing a vast range of techniques, tricks and tips to turn your lover on. From attracting someone new to recharging your old relationship, Fabulous, explores each of the sexual senses in turn!
No. 1 selling book offering you tons of fantastic sex tips PLUS a new and revolutionary ways of looking at sexual pleasure and ‘problems‘ and how they fit into a person's whole life and relationships.
No. 1 selling sex book covering everything from how your body works to infinite sex tips. The Daily Star said: 'Sinful Sex has something for everyone'
A unique parenting book giving you creative techniques to understand your child better through their dreams and nightmares. These reveal so much about a child that most parents miss out on. Strengthen your parent-child relationship, their confidence and well-being!