Are you a man, probably over 35 and more likely over 40 that has recently lost sexual desire? Maybe you're erections aren't as hard and you also find your memory isn't as good and energy levels lower.
Later today my fortnightly Sun newspaper online column goes live [I'll post and tweet when it does] and I tackle this issue. It might be you're experiencing TDS - testosterone deficiency syndrome. Increasing research shows benefits of getting this checked out and perhaps getting some testosterone treatment. Check-a-look if this rings a bell with you.
Unfortunately we tend to do the "ostrich thing" and bury our heads in the sand when things aren't working in the bedroom as they think they should be.
Rihanna says that being single "sucks" - not surprised with marriage on the increase [up by nearly 4% in the last 12 months] I think people are looking for security. The recession has been like an earthquake under our feet and now we're looking for stronger foundations of our relationships. Does anyone think she's been a hope in finding a boyfriend?? Thought not!
TODAY’S TIP: Back to TDS - don't hide from such issues - it only makes them bigger, more scarier, and hard to sort out!
Instead make it a calm and loving discussion about your worries. It's really not that hard once you overcome anxiety about bringing up this topic.
Go on, you can do it and I hope you sort things out.
Have a lovely weekend, Pam x