It's time to recognise the "I'll be happy when..." syndrome!...
I mentioned this a few weeks ago - that over the weekend I get more e-mails about work issues. I think it's because you're relaxing at the weekend... but that gives you more time to think and so Monday morning looms large if you've got a problem at work.
This weekend I had half a dozen people e-mail about dreading seeing their boss/manager today. I think this problem's worse now with the recession - no one wants to lose their job - no one wants to be the person who appears to be causing trouble at work - and so everyone puts up with a lot more from their boss/manager.
TODAY’S TIP: if you're one of the e-mailers or someone else who has dreaded the new week starting try this:
Write out the issue with your boss as if it was a complaint form - laying everything out in specific points and in chronological order.
Then look at the points you've made and see which would be easiest to tackle first. Always start with the easiest. Because if you tackle that and it's a success it gives you confidence to handle the rest.
Think through how this particular point could be solved - what is your part in it? What can you do to change it? And what does your manager need to do?
Fingers crossed start solving things, Pamx
My new book The Emotional Eater's Diet is published in the UK on May 15 - I’m very excited as I hope emotional eaters - women or men will find it helpful. Each year 2/3s of people start a diet and 20% start a new diet each month. Yet 95% of diets aren’t successful.
I firmly believe that emotional eating to soothe difficult feelings is the culprit behind most of this failure. My book has a huge range of practical tips/strategies to help understand your emotions and manage your appetite. There are mini-quizes and real case studies.
It’s available to preorder on Amazon. Please remember that food can fuel your energy needs but not your emotional needs. Take care!
I'm delighted that my latest book Sex Academy was endorsed by my fellow self-help author Siski Green who said: "Sex Academy really is THE Bible of sex books. The lessons and lectures cover the A-Z of everything you want to know - from Anal sex to getting Zero sex." I hope you enjoy it!
I was so excited and HAPPY to write this book on happiness covering my 10 unique Happiness Principles. I hope it helps increase your well-being, contentment, and happiness. I've packed it with dozens and dozens of easy-to-use strategies, plus life-changing insights. Based on about five years of collecting case studies and research I hope you'll find it helpful.
My latest sex guide's out - I've gone through thousands of questions people ask me about sex - from why they don't feel desire to how to handle a partner's kinky fetish. Here are the answers plus loads of tricks and techniques. Enjoy!
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