Thank you so much for all your e-mails for "National Agony Aunt Day" - I love calling it "National"! Every Thursday I answer one e-mail in full and appreciate the vast array of questions I get. As I work long hours and run my own site, sadly I only have time to answer one a week.
This week I've answered the e-mail that "Daniel" sent [remember I changed names if you haven't already flagged a change to me]. Daniels worried that his girlfriend has gone off sex after five years together.
This is a common dilemma for many couples and you can see my answer to him on my homepage at "e-mail me here".
TODAY’S TIP: the key thing is you can harbour a worry like this, secretly worrying that something is wrong and if you don't bring it out into the open you'll never know.
Of course it's daunting to raise sensitive things like sexual satisfaction but if you're in it for the long haul you need to learn those key communication skills.
Better to find out you’re worrying over nothing - or if you find out your worry is grounded then you're on the road to solving it.
Have a great day, Pamx