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How to Walk Away from an Unhappy Relationship...
Subconscious Sabotage...
Whatever Makes You Happy...
Money does matter...
Body Image Nightmare...
Understanding and Overcoming Your Pre-Wedding Jitters and On-the-day Nerves –
Age-gap anxiety...
Friends Connected at the Hip & Dating...
Marriage SOS...
Dating Again after a Breakup...
Laughed straight between the sheets....
Too Good to be True...
Beware the Mention of the Exes...
Murder on the Dance Floor....
Lusting after Another Love...
The Rise of the Plan B Pact...
How Romance Can Be like Extracting Teeth...
Credit Crunch Couples...
Christmas time advice for struggling couples...
Third-Party Interference...
Opposites That Don't Attract...
The Female Self-Destruct Button
The Convenience of Compartments...
Unlikely Apologies...
Masculine Confidences
The Chill Look of Contempt...
He/She Isn't the Person That I Settled Down With....
Dating at a Distance...
The Imperfect Perfectionists...
Why He Doesn't Ring When He Says He Will...
The Curse Of The Competitive Couples...
It Seemed So Right, Now It’s So Wrong....
I married my mother...
Never Under-estimate a GSOH...
Don't Get Too Comfortable...
Why Not Indulge Him?
Bickering Versus A Good Old Barney....
Pre-Wedding Jitters? Join the Crowd...
Do They Really Mean It?
Never Underestimate The Power Of Affection And Touch ...
The Facts About Flirtatious Behaviour...
He Has A Nose Like Groucho Marx
What Do We Lose When We Gain A New Lover?
When your partner reflects on you...
How to Get Things Started When You Meet Someone New
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A Guide to Having A Happy Engagement ...
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How to Get Back into the Dating Game
Whose Chat-up Line Is It Anyway?
10 Steps to Overcome the Green Eyed Monster
How Love Unrequited Links so Many of Our Hearts
How to Breakup Amicably...
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Love is in the air - seven signs that say he's attracted to you!
The Best Dating Tips Ever...
Whirlwind Weddings – Too Much, Too Soon!
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Does Your Relationship Need Resuscitation? Welcome to the crowd...
Has Your Man Disappeared into His Communication ‘Cave’?
Kissing tips that work!
When the Internet Comes between You
Bridge That Glaring Age Gap
The Ultimate Couple's Communication Guide
QUIZ: What's Your Love Profile?
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Understanding Men
A Few Points About Some Male Personality Types -
Try these love challenges (2)
Become An Action Woman To Find Love
Try these love challenges (3)
Single Women - Personal Growth
Try these love challenges (4)
"Couple time" at the weekend is crucial!
When You and Mr Right Want Different Things
Relationship damage-limitation: quick fix communication tips -
The three tell tale signs you aren't quite over your ex
Some points about men who might give you "mad cow disease"
A Few Thoughts on Successful Relationships
Five Top Tips for Long Distance Relationships
Notes on when to talk about BABIES -
The Stages of Relationships
A few top communication tips!
Dating after a break-up
Keeping positive when you want to start dating again!
Finding love and fun on holiday!
When you "down date"
Dating "firsts"
Beware - the problems with Internet dating!
First dates - some dos and don'ts!
More thoughts on first dates!
Some top dating tips!
Couples - put your relationship through an MOT!
Top speed dating tips!
The key to looking interested not desperate when dating!
My Thoughts on Pre-Marital Counselling
Do You Recognise Yourself in These Romantic Profiles?
Making Compromises or Being under Someone's Thumb?
Some Thoughts on Adolescent Relationship Worries
A Few Thoughts on Broken Hearts
When He Pays Too Much Attention to TV, Computer Games or gadgets!
Are You Staying with Him or Her Because of Your Lifestyle?
Some Questions And Things Men Wonder/Worry About
From platonic relationship, to one night stand, to affair
An Affair Doesn't Necessarily Spell The End
Nine Things You Should Never Say To Your New Love!
Get Some Va Va Va-voom for Valentines!
What Happened To The Innocence Of Valentine's?
QUIZ: What Every Woman Who Wants To Marry Should Know!
Christmas-proof Your Relationship For The Fraught Holiday Season!
Why Mismatched Couples Should Beware!
You Can Get Out Of An Abusive Or Violent Relationship!
Just How Manly A Man Do You Want?
Understanding The McCartney's War Of Words When They Divorced
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What's the real meaning behind his Valentine's gift to you?
Guys - some top tips for buying her a fabulous present!
Stop Worrying About Your Wedding! Beat those wedding-day nerves!
Dating tips for MEN - The Secrets Of Her Body Language
Dating tips for MEN - Your First Date, First Phone Call and First Kiss
Dating tips for MEN - Surefire Ways and Where to Meet Women
Dating tips for MEN - Don't Be a Romantic Loser
Dating tips for WOMEN - Capturing His Attention
Dating tips for WOMEN - What to Do When Things Go Wrong
Dating tips for WOMEN - The Wise Woman's Guide to The Art of Flirting
Dating tips for WOMEN - Love at First Sight
Thoughts on Why Infidelity Is on the Rise
Four Fabulous Steps To Improve Your Relationship!
MEN: You behaved badly - what to do!
Suspect He's Cheating?
Seven Secrets of Successful Long-Distance Relationships
Find Love For Valentine's Day!
QUIZ: Is It Love or Is It Lust?
How To Decipher Male- Versus Female-Speak
QUIZ: Are You A Man's Woman Or A Woman's Woman?
How Marriage Changes Through The Decades
Relationship Guaranteed: 10 Little Tricks To Stay Together
Marriage SOS – Seven steps to save your relationship!
QUIZ: Are You Marrying For The Right Reasons?
The Great Matchmaker Guide
Prevent A Mid-Life Crisis In Your Marriage
The Millisecond Marriages – Too Much, Too Soon!
Money, Men And You
Why Do You Have Repeated Relationship Failures?
Are You Too Needy In Relationships?
The Unique And Quirky Guide To Finding Love In The New Year!
The Nine Signs of a Non-committer
Eight Things You Should Never Say To Your Partner
Has Your Relationship Suffered Over Summer?
The Ten-Minute Window in Relationships
Prevent an Affair!
The Secrets of Seduction
A Warning Call To The Lonely And Single Generation!
QUIZ: How Likely Are You To Have An Affair?
QUIZ: How Insecure Is Your Love?
Could He Be A Natural-Born Cheat?
QUIZ: How Well Do You Know Your Man?
Seven Secrets of Successful Long-Distance Relationships
The New Dating Dilemmas - And How To Cope With Them
The Deal Breakers That Threaten Your Relationship
QUIZ: Don't Ditch Your Relationship Too Soon!
Warning - Divorce Is Dangerous To Your Health!
The Fabulous Flirt Guide
QUIZ: Great EX-pectations - Is Your Ex Jeopardising Your Relationship?
QUIZ: Harness Those Wedding Day Doubts And Nerves
QUIZ: Are You Still Haunted By The Ghost Of Your Ex?
Beware - Your Broken Heart Should Come With A Health Warning!
Heal Your Xmas Holiday Break-up!
A QUICKIE FOR YOU: My top five tips for a long relationship
Some crucial tips to avoid money related arguments!
Top Relationship Tips For Preventing Christmas Stress
Couples: Be careful what you bicker about
QUIZ: Are You Bored To Tears With Your Relationship?
Separated But Still Under The Same Roof!
Six Signs Your First Date Could Signal Love!
The Seven Deadly Signs Your Relationship Is In Trouble
Seven Ways to His Heart You Probably Haven't Thought Of!
QUIZ: The Great Guide To Having A Second Go!
Find Love In A Few Weeks!
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Making Compromises or Being under Someone's Thumb?
19/10/2009
Making Compromises or Being under Someone's Thumb? Some thoughts -
1. What'a the difference between making compromises in a relationship and being 'under the thumb'?
"There's a vast difference between making compromises in a relationship and being under a woman's thumb. Making compromises involves 1. developing good communication about an issue and 2. then negotiating a middle ground that suits both people. Being under the thumb involves the inability to assert yourself to find that middle ground. This means you acquiesce to a woman's demands with no concern for your own it needs. Ultimately she won't respect you for it and you'll feel very bitter towards her."
2. What sort of relationship sacrifice is a sacrifice too far? (eg quittingsmoking/ditching a friend/getting an Ikea loyalty card to keep the missus sweet)
"Making sacrifices in a relationship is inevitable if a relationship’s going to work. However some sacrifices feel very one-sided and you have to look at whether they benefit both partners and in what way. For example, giving up smoking may feel tough but ultimately benefits both you and her from both health and sexiness perspectives. However, e.g. giving up an old friend she doesn't "get on with" is another matter. Instead of sacrificing the friendship you should both be looking to compromise. Perhaps you spend less time with that friend while she does her own thing on those evenings."
3. Why do men submit themselves to underthethumbness? (eg avoiding arguments/desire to be mothered) - and why is this a bad idea?
"There are a number of psychological and emotional reasons why men submit themselves to being under her thumb. The two most common being wanting to have "a quiet life" and simply not having the communication skills to deal with the situation. Many men have enough conflict in their places of work that in their personal life they simply want things to be done and dusted and "quiet". A man who chooses this route may not be particularly frustrated with this relationship dynamic. However with the second main reason, men who simply don't know how to communicate their needs may end up angry and bitter, and start behaving in a passive-aggressive fashion towards their partner. Finally some men submit to their partner’s demands when a relationship takes on a mother-child dynamic. This works for some couples and for others it causes a variety of problems."
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