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Beware of the Love Pirates...Here's a warning about the lads who'll capture your heart…then leave you behind.
Have you been caught out by a Love Pirate? He made you think he was falling in love then cut you dead? I've seen this love-phenomenon frequently. It's time you wised up to this type of guy. He not only collects notches on his bed post having got you between the sheets, but loves to make you fall in love with him when he won't return it!
Is your new man a Love Pirate?
The Love Pirate Checklist - how many boxes does he tick?
1/ He's bombarded me with flirtatious texts from the start YES NO
2/ He hints he’s in love with me but doesn't actually say it YES NO
3/ He gives me OTT compliments that I know aren't true YES NO
4/ He’s a bit evasive about what he’s up to, when we’re not together YES NO
5/ Right from the start he's talked about "our future" YES NO
6/Straight off he's wanted to see me every spare minute YES NO
7/ He always talk about me and my feelings - and not his YES NO
8/ He completely focuses on me but changes focus very quickly, like if his mobile rings
6-8 YES Answers - A Proper Blue Beard
He might be the one-in-a-million who’s genuinely fallen head over heels straight away. BUT just in case he isn't, be on your guard. Until now you've been bamboozled by his Love Pirate-speak - after all, the attention he's heaped on you is so different to what most lads give at first. Do the following particularly if you answered YES to questions 3, 4, 7, and 8:
3-5 YES Answers - Blue Beard’s Mate
He may not be a full-blown Love Pirate but watch out for any behaviour that causes concern and use the advice above.
1-2 YES Answers – Occasional Plunderer
You might have a great guy who’s keen and not a Love Pirate. It's still a good idea to read the advice above.
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I hope you find it a unique guide that emphasises how single friends can help each other make the most of the dating scene. As well as containing a vast array of tips and techniques to help you to dating success - everything from the first date, online dating, the signals he gives out through different behaviours, and how to improve your own signals are included.
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My new book The Emotional Eater's Diet is published in the UK on May 15 - I’m very excited as I hope emotional eaters - women or men will find it helpful. Each year 2/3s of people start a diet and 20% start a new diet each month. Yet 95% of diets aren’t successful.
I firmly believe that emotional eating to soothe difficult feelings is the culprit behind most of this failure. My book has a huge range of practical tips/strategies to help understand your emotions and manage your appetite. There are mini-quizes and real case studies.
It’s available to preorder on Amazon. Please remember that food can fuel your energy needs but not your emotional needs. Take care!
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